Mar 26 2008

Online Dating and Mature Women

Published by Pat Mullaly at 6:22 pm under Relationships

A Note from the Publisher:

I’ve done my share of online dating. First tried match.com. No luck. Thenmidlife couple eHarmony.com. Had a little more success there, but made a big mistake. I did not post a photograph. Anyone interested in dating online, wants to see your face along with your name. I don’t take the best photo, so I avoided the issue by not posting a picture of myself. It wasn’t a problem at first. I had several contacts to pursue, and one, a lawyer, seemed most eager to meet me… until I finally posted my photo. Then I got dumped. The problem - I don’t know if it was my face he didn’t like… or he just found someone else.

My Advice: Without a face, it is easy to assume the best or the worst about your potential online mate. Be upfront right from the start. Post your best photo and let the chips fall.

Here is more advice to follow for online dating.

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Author: Joe Davidson

Where does one meet mature women? It is more difficult than you might think. For those of us that prefer experience to the blush of youth, this is an important question. Younger women make themselves available to date, they regularly attend bars and other social functions whose whole purpose is to pair people off with one another. Not so the mature woman. She has tastes a tad more elegant and refined. There is no such sexual mecca for mature women, but if not the traditional meat markets where is one supposed to meet them?

I know one man who started attending church for just this reason. He was a divorcee in his early forties and not particularly religious. He had noticed that there were a substantial number of single (for one reason or the other) women his age attending church, so he became a regular patron. This worked out well for him. He was able to attend all kinds of social functions, and meet single mature women. But despite how well this worked out, it’s a lot of trouble to go to when there is an easier way to go about it.

Deprived of the meat market, mature women are now meeting potential partners via online dating. This shouldn’t surprise anyone, really. After all the whole point of online dating is to lay all your cards on the table from the start, and see who is interested. This suits that mature woman’s frame of mind. Nothing like the ticking of the biological clock to give a girl a sense of efficiency in dating. No time to mess around when forty is just around the corner.

It shouldn’t surprise anyone that mature women make up a large percentage of online daters. Housewives play a lot of online games, and once one is accustomed to the feeling of an online community, it’s a short step from using it to find entertainment to using it to find love.

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6 Responses to “Online Dating and Mature Women”

  1. # Zapon 26 Mar 2008 at 8:45 pm

    Online dating is the way to go. I’ve tried everything else. This is the best way for me.

  2. # Datingon 27 Mar 2008 at 10:51 am

    I believe online dating is the way to go as well… it lets you get to know potential partners first and also lets you get comfortable with the opposite person first as well..

  3. # Cully Perlmanon 27 Mar 2008 at 1:56 pm

    I think the older you get, the more likelihood that you’re looking for a more mature relationship, one that doesn’t involve kissing 30 toads before meeting the prince. Online dating is great for that, because you get to not only see the person but read about them and get a better sense about them. It’s why I started Degreedate, and not suprisingly, the niche appeals to men and women who are of that mindset.

  4. # mteeon 27 Mar 2008 at 3:37 pm

    Good comment Cully. I will check out your website too.
    I just need to get over the idea that I’m a looser if I use an online dating service.

  5. # Karenon 27 Mar 2008 at 5:01 pm

    Totally interesting info!

  6. # Cully Perlmanon 02 Apr 2008 at 6:40 pm

    I don’t think anyone is a loser for using online dating. I met my fiancee that way–and I’m pretty sure we’re not losers :)
    It’s simply a different way to meet people–if you’re busy with work, etc., and not interested in trolling the bars, it’s a good way to go. The stigma is pretty much gone for online dating.

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